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San Francisco’s economy doesn’t look like it did a generation ago. Alongside its long-standing base of professionals, physicians, and family-owned businesses, the city has become one of the country’s densest concentrations of technology, biotech, and startup wealth, much of it tied up in stock options, RSUs, and ownership stakes that complicate what would otherwise be a routine division of assets. Schoenberg Family Law Group, P.C. represents clients throughout San Francisco in matters that require this level of financial sophistication in addition to advanced legal skill. A divorce that begins amicably can quickly become contentious once the parties start valuing a business, dividing equity in a still-private company, or negotiating support obligations tied to a compensation structure that changes year to year. Our San Francisco high-asset divorce attorneys advocate for your interests at every stage of proceedings before the San Francisco Superior Court. We represent clients across the city, including Pacific Heights, Presidio Heights, Nob Hill, the Marina, Sea Cliff, and St. Francis Wood.
California is both a community property and no-fault divorce state. While these principles are designed to simplify some fundamental issues, they do not reduce the stakes when your divorce involves significant assets. Decisions you make now impact your financial future and your family’s stability. Seek experienced legal counsel promptly if your case involves any of the following:
There’s no fixed dollar threshold that defines a high-asset divorce. What makes a San Francisco family law case complex is usually the type of wealth involved rather than the total figure alone. A couple with a modest salary but significant equity in a pre-IPO company faces many of the same valuation and timing questions as a couple with a seven-figure income. Assets that regularly complicate a San Francisco divorce include stock options and RSUs still in the vesting process, ownership stakes in startups and closely held businesses, multiple properties, investment and brokerage accounts, professional practice goodwill, cryptocurrency, and intellectual property tied to royalties or licensing. We regularly work alongside forensic accountants, business valuation experts, and tax professionals to make sure each of these is properly identified, valued, and characterized before any settlement conversation begins.
San Francisco’s economy runs on deferred and equity-based compensation in a way that most jurisdictions don’t have to account for, and it shows up in divorce cases constantly. Stock options and RSUs that are still vesting raise a specific question: how much of that compensation was earned during the marriage, and how much reflects work performed after separation? The answer affects both property division and spousal support, and it’s rarely obvious from the paperwork alone. Accurately determining that split is essential in RSU and stock option cases – and we bring the same meticulous analysis to every San Francisco matter involving deferred compensation.
Business ownership presents a related but distinct challenge. If one spouse founded or holds equity in a company, the court needs an accurate valuation before either party can negotiate in good faith – this is the case whether the business is a two-person startup still raising its first round or an established professional practice with decades of goodwill behind it. A proper business valuation for divorce accounts for exactly that distinction, separating what a business was worth at the date of marriage from what it grew to be worth when the marriage ended. Our team brings the same rigor to every San Francisco case involving a closely held business.
Under California Family Code § 760, all property acquired during the marriage is presumed community property, owned equally by both spouses regardless of whose name appears on the account or title. Property owned before the marriage, or received individually as a gift or inheritance, remains separate.
While simple on the surface, community property principles can be very challenging to apply, especially in a high-asset San Francisco divorce. Family Code § 2550 requires equal division of the marital estate; but before a 50/50 split can happen, every asset first has to be correctly classified as community property, separate property, or some mix of the two.
The real difficulty is in properly tracing assets once the line between community and separate property has blurred by commingling. In San Francisco, this issue frequently arises through equity grants that vest across years of a marriage, businesses built with a mix of premarital and marital capital, and homes purchased partly with separate-property savings, particularly in a market where a single property can represent a significant portion of a couple’s net worth. A skilled high-asset divorce attorney with local experience is essential. We work to keep your separate property protected while making sure community assets are divided fairly.
A well-drafted prenuptial or postnuptial agreement remains one of the most effective ways to protect significant assets before a dispute ever arises. These agreements can define what stays separate property, address how a business or its future appreciation will be treated, and reduce the scope of what’s contested if a marriage ends. Although it can be sensitive to discuss, a prenup does not indicate a lack of faith in the relationship. It’s a proactive tool that helps a couple align priorities, values, goals, and intentions – as well as providing a roadmap that streamlines issues in the event of divorce. We help couples draft durable customized agreements.
When an agreement already exists, we review its terms carefully for enforceability; a prenup signed without full financial disclosure or under pressure can be challenged in court. When no agreement exists, we help clients understand what property protections are still available to them under California law.
Litigation isn’t always the right path, even in cases involving significant financial stakes. Many San Francisco clients choose mediation to retain greater privacy and control over outcomes while keeping costs manageable and conflict to a minimum.
Mediation is confidential — what’s discussed and agreed to doesn’t become part of the public record the way a court filing does. It also allows you and your spouse to reach practical, highly-tailored arrangements, rather than leaving decisions to a judge who has known your family for the length of a single hearing. It can also move a case toward resolution faster than the standard litigation calendar. For San Francisco clients in industries where professional reputation matters — venture capital, executive leadership, closely held business ownership — the discretion mediation provides can be worth as much as the financial outcomes. Our attorneys help clients navigate every step of the dissolution process, whether through negotiated settlement or courtroom litigation. We keep you well-informed so you can make confident decisions.
Certain issues arise with particular frequency in San Francisco’s high-asset divorces. Illiquid wealth is one of the most persistent: startup equity, unvested options, and closely held business interests can’t simply be split down the middle, and settlements often require creative structuring, such as offsetting other assets or staggering a buyout over time. Privacy is another — executives, founders, and other high-profile clients frequently want their financial details kept out of public court filings; we use mediation, private judging, and carefully drafted settlements to keep sensitive information as contained as possible.
Disputed valuations are common as well; it’s routine for each side to hire its own business or asset appraiser, and for those valuations to differ significantly, requiring either negotiation or, when necessary, litigation of the disputed value in front of a judge. In highly contentious cases, a spouse may attempt to delay a liquidity event, undervalue a business, or move assets out of view. It is illegal to conceal assets and the law takes it very seriously. Our attorneys work with forensic accountants specifically trained to identify this kind of conduct.
Every high-asset case we take on gets the same starting point: a complete and accurate picture of the marital estate before any negotiation begins. From there, our attorneys identify and classify every asset as community or separate property, including assets that became co-mingled during the marriage; coordinate with forensic accountants, business appraisers, and tax professionals to value complex or illiquid holdings; structure settlements around the realities of equity compensation, vesting schedules, and liquidity restrictions; and negotiate spousal support figures that account for both current income and anticipated future compensation. We represent clients in negotiation, mediation, or litigation, depending on which path best protects their interests. We build each strategy around the specific assets in play rather than applying the same approach to every case, because a founder with pre-IPO equity and a couple splitting a family home need very different plans. Your family, your financial circumstances, and your dissolution are unique. We build client relationships based on trust, open communication, and genuine care.
All divorce and family law proceedings in this jurisdiction are handled through the Superior Court of California, County of San Francisco.
Family law cases require more than legal knowledge. They demand discretion, sound judgment, and an attorney who understands that the decisions made during this process will shape your family and financial life for years afterward. Schoenberg Family Law Group has served families for nearly four decades. Our longevity reflects not just experience, but a consistent track record of protecting clients’ financial futures with precision and integrity.
At the center of our firm’s reputation is founding attorney Debra Schoenberg. As a Certified Family Law Specialist with nearly 40 years of dedicated practice, and a Fellow of the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers, Debra has spent her career mastering the dynamics of high-stakes, high-asset matrimonial dissolutions. Her extensive experience untangling complex financial portfolios allows our firm to approach every San Francisco case with rigor and detailed strategy. Our firm has been named the #1 Family Law Firm in California by The Recorder’s “Best Of” Awards for six consecutive years, and Debra has repeatedly been named one of California’s Top Family Lawyers by The Daily Journal.
San Francisco clients who work with our team can expect:
We are committed to the highest standards of professionalism, integrity, results-driven representation, and thoughtful client service.
The veteran team at Schoenberg Family Law Group, P.C. brings more than 400 combined years of family law practice to clients throughout San Francisco and the greater Bay Area. We pair rigorous legal strategy with the compassion and discretion that complex personal matters demand. Contact our San Francisco high-asset divorce attorneys at 415.834.1120 or complete our online form to discuss your situation and begin planning your next chapter.
"I was seeking a reputable family law firm for my prenuptial agreement and received high praise for the Schoenberg Law Group. My attorney listened to my questions and responded to them very patiently. She also paid close attention all my concerns and made sure I was aware of the legal value of the agreement I was about to sign. It was…”
D.R.“It has been a real blessing to find this family law group in my life. I was in the middle of a custody battle with my ex wife and had a lawyer who had sided with my ex wife’s lawyer. I was faced with the option of paying to a regular lawyer to do half jobs with no results or to invest a bit more for a top family counselor who understood my situation and at the same time not giving me false hopes."
A.L."I hesitated filing papers for a long time because I was not sure if I could survive a long legal battle. When we were married, my husband worked while I raised the children, two under four years old, and I was afraid I would lose the stability they needed. I had a wonderful group of friends that helped me search for a reputable law firm that could represent me when my focus was on my children. They found the"
L.A.We are trial lawyers who litigate high-conflict, high-stakes cases. While we try to build on mediation efforts and exhaust opportunities for a negotiated agreement, emotions, egos and various other realities often force these disputes into court. It is critical to work with a firm that knows how to apply the law and the facts in your favor, whether in the courtroom or at the negotiating table.
One of California’s Top Family Lawyers for five consecutive years: 2022–2026
SFLG Voted #1 Family Law Firm in California for six consecutive years: 2021 - 2026
One of the Best Places to Work in the Bay Area by San Francisco Business Times
Debra Schoenberg was named a Fellow of the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers (AAML)
Designated as a Certified Family Law Specialist by the State of California Board of Legal Specialization
Board-Certified Family Law Trial Specialist by The National Board of Trial Advocacy (NBTA)
“My goal is to preserve your dignity and your humanity throughout what can be a very difficult and painful process, while at the same time achieving a favorable outcome on your behalf.”
Over 400 Years of Collective Family Law Experience
Debra R. Schoenberg
Owner & Founder
Lily Huang
Senior Associate
Kimia Kojouri
Associate