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Request a ConsultationAs experienced Marin County child custody attorneys, the team at Schoenberg Family Law Group, P.C. knows how complex and emotionally draining a custody dispute can be. Child custody matters are highly sensitive and fraught with legal, logistical and personal challenges, whether you are going through a divorce, custody modification, or are unwed and in a custody dispute.
When you work with us, you receive counsel from experts in the California child custody field. We pride ourselves on acting with integrity and compassion when guiding parents in making the best decisions for themselves and their children – now and into the future.
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There are two types of child custody orders: legal custody and physical custody. Legal custody grants a parent the right to make essential decisions for the children, such as health care, education, and religion. Physical custody refers to the parent with whom the children reside. Both legal and physical custody can be shared jointly by the parents or held solely by one parent.
In joint physical custody, parents share physical custody of their children; however, the time-split may not be exactly equal.
The Marin County Court Framework: If you reside in Marin County, all contested child custody motions, trials, and emergency hearings are adjudicated at the Marin County Superior Court within the Marin County Civic Center in San Rafael. Crucially, Marin County operates as a “recommending” court jurisdiction. Under local rules, if parents fail to reach a voluntary agreement during mandatory Family Court Services (FCS) mediation, the assigned court mediator will draft a formal, written recommendation regarding legal and physical custody. This recommendation is submitted directly to the family law judge and carries immense influence over the final court order.
Judges determining child custody in California must prioritize the best interests of the child when deciding custody arrangements and parenting time. Judges do not give preference to either parent based upon the sex of the parent, nor can judges deny custody or visitation due to physical disability, lifestyle, religious belief, or sexual orientation.
Judges are primarily concerned with the health, safety, and welfare of the children. Except in unusual cases, the court assumes that children benefit from frequent and continuing contact with both parents. Judges examine specific details about the children to determine these factors such as:
Beyond these concerns, judges consider several other factors when delegating custody and parenting time, including:
When parents are locked in a severe, unresolved dispute regarding legal or physical custody, a Marin County family law judge may order a comprehensive custody evaluation under California Family Code Section 3111. This process injects a court-appointed mental health professional, private psychologist, or licensed clinical social worker into the case to conduct an objective, deep-dive investigation.
A standard 3111 evaluation in Marin County includes:
The evaluator concludes the investigation by compiling a highly confidential, comprehensive report detailing their findings, along with a specific recommended parenting plan. Because these recommendations carry extraordinary weight with local judges, having a seasoned Marin County custody attorney to prepare you for the evaluation process and strategically manage the investigator’s report is essential to protecting your parental rights.
Parenting time, or visitation, is dependent on the best interests of the children, the situation of the parents, and other factors as listed above. Parents usually need a detailed visitation plan to prevent conflict and confusion between themselves. Visitation schedules often include holidays, birthdays, Mother’s Day, Father’s day, and school vacations.
There are four typical visitation schedules ordered by judges based upon the best interests of children.
Our firm possesses sophisticated experience litigating these highly sensitive, critical custody issues in Marin County:
Child support orders go into effect at the same time as child custody and visitation orders. At no time is it acceptable to the court to withhold visitation for lack of child support payments. If a parent is behind in support payments, contact an experienced family law attorney before taking any such action.
Whatever your individual needs are, at Schoenberg Family Law Group, P.C., our Marin County Family Law attorneys will work diligently with you to evaluate and prepare a child custody and visitation schedule. We understand that quality time and a meaningful relationship with your children are the priority when reaching a desired child custody arrangement. Together, we will create a realistic strategy for helping you achieve this goal.
Whether you are finalizing the terms of your divorce, seeking a modification to an existing child custody arrangement, or simply have questions about a possible child custody matter, our attorneys are here to give you the answers and reassurance you need. Contact us to schedule a confidential consultation.
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Marin County parents attend mandatory court-ordered child custody mediation through Family Court Services (FCS), located within the Marin County Superior Court at the Marin County Civic Center, 3501 Civic Center Drive in San Rafael. Parents must participate in this mediation process before a judge will hear any contested argument regarding custody schedules.
Marin County being a "recommending" jurisdiction means that if parents are unable to agree on a parenting schedule during their Family Court Services (FCS) mediation session, the mediator is legally authorized to write a formal recommendation for the judge. This comprehensive report outlines who should receive legal and physical custody and what the visitation schedule should look like, heavily influencing the judge’s final decision.
A parent cannot permanently relocate a child outside of Marin County or the state of California without either the written consent of the other parent or a formal "move-away" order granted by a San Rafael family law judge. The court evaluates parental relocation requests by examining whether the move is proposed in good faith and analyzing its overall impact on the child’s stability and parental relationships.
Under California law, a child never has the absolute legal right to choose their custodial parent; however, under Family Code Section 3042, if a child is deemed to be of sufficient age and capacity to form an intelligent preference (typically age 14 or older), the court must allow them to express their wishes to the judge, unless doing so is determined to be detrimental to their emotional well-being.
To successfully modify a permanent, final child custody order in Marin County, a parent must legally demonstrate a "substantial change in circumstances" that directly impacts the child’s welfare. Valid examples include an involuntary job relocation, a major change in work hours or availability, new evidence regarding parental fitness, or significant shifts in the child's developmental, academic, or medical needs.
No, a Marin County judge will not deny or restrict legal or physical custody solely because a parent has a demanding or unconventional corporate work schedule. Instead, local family courts focus on a parent's capacity to provide a safe, stable environment during their parenting time, frequently incorporating flexible time-sharing provisions or a "right of first refusal" to maximize the child's time with both parents.