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Request a ConsultationAt The Schoenberg Family Law Group, P.C., we know that considering a divorce or receiving a divorce petition is a complicated and stressful situation. Our firm will help by providing you with experienced and determined divorce attorneys to answer your questions and represent your best interests.
Our Redwood City divorce attorney offers quality legal representation to guide you through every aspect of your divorce, including but not limited to:
The divorce process can be frustrating and lengthy, and unforeseen problems can arise. Allow the professionals at The Schoenberg Family Law Group, P.C., to advance your understanding of divorce and move you towards a fresh start.
California is a “no-fault” divorce state. In other words, the spouse asking for a divorce does not have to prove the other spouse did something wrong.
The spouse filing for divorce usually does so because of “irreconcilable differences,” or the inability to get along. Since California is a no-fault divorce state, the court does not punish either party for any type of wrongdoing in the marriage, like an affair.
The spouse who files the original paperwork is called the “Petitioner,” and the spouse who receives that paperwork is the “Respondent.” There is no legal advantage to being either the Petitioner or the Respondent, but filing first may have a strategic advantage.
There is a six-month waiting period after filing before a court will grant a final divorce. However, most divorces take longer than six months to complete. Even if a divorce is settled early, a court will not issue a final divorce until the six-month waiting period has passed.
Until a court grants a final divorce, one cannot remarry or file taxes separately.
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To obtain a divorce in California, one spouse must meet California’s residency requirements. These are as follows:
There is an exception for filing a legal separation. It is permissible to file and amend a petition for legal separation into a divorce petition once the spouse meets the residency requirement.
There is also an exception for same-sex couples. Those who married in California but live in a state that does not recognize same-sex marriage can file a divorce in the California county where they married.
The divorce process begins when one spouse files a Petition with the court. Upon receiving the Petition, the Respondent has 30 days to file a Response to the facts outlined in the Petition. Once the Respondent files an Answer, there may be a hearing for the case.
California requires mediation when a couple has children. Mediation must take place before the first court hearing. Failure to appear at custody mediation may result in court-ordered fines or sanctions.
Mediation in a divorce case is a meeting involving both spouses, their attorneys (if applicable) and a mediator. A mediator is an unbiased third party who typically has some training in conflict resolution, such as a retired judge or a lawyer who does not work for either spouse. The mediator is present to help the parties communicate and reach a mutually satisfactory settlement for the divorce case. The mediator cannot give a binding order at the end of mediation. He or she is simply there to facilitate communication and compromises to resolve the dispute.
Mediation can make a divorce case more civil and productive. During mediation, the mediator will put each party in a separate room after initial introductions are made. Then, the mediator will communicate independently with each party to make it easier for the couple to reach an agreement. Mediation can prevent altercations and animosity that often occur in face-to-face meetings, making for a more productive conversation. At the end of mediation, it is up to the couple if they want to sign a settlement agreement or continue with divorce negotiations.
In California, parties equally share community property and debt. However, parties can agree to an unequal division of property and debt provided they agree to the division.
There is no need to split property and debt down the middle. Trade-offs are permissible. Assets and debts can remain whole with the parties, each taking an approximately equal dollar amount of each.
It is important to note that community debt assumed by one party may still become the responsibility of the other if the liable party defaults.
If the parties reach a property and debt division agreement, one of their attorneys prepares a Marital Settlement Agreement. Both parties sign this, and their attorneys then present the agreement to a judge. Once approved by a judge, the divorce is final.
If the parties have children and reach a child custody and support agreement, the judge is given a Marital Settlement Agreement for approval. If all of the parties’ marital issues resolve, neither party may need to make a court appearance.
If the parties are unable to reach an agreement regarding any marital or child custody issues, there is a trial before a judge. The judge will hear testimony and review evidence regarding any unresolved matters and issue orders the parties must follow.
Some couples cannot reach divorce settlement agreements, even after weeks or months of negotiation, mediation and arbitration. If you have a high-conflict divorce and you and your spouse cannot reach an agreement, the next step in your divorce case is a trial before a family court judge in Redwood City. A divorce trial comes with specific steps that you and your divorce attorney will need to navigate:
Keep in mind that you can settle your divorce case at any time until the first day of your trial. A settlement is easier, cheaper and less risky than a divorce trial. With assistance from a lawyer, you can improve your chances of reaching a satisfactory settlement agreement with your spouse and avoiding a divorce trial. If your case does go to court, a divorce lawyer can be invaluable as your representation throughout the trial process.
There are steps to take before an adversarial divorce to help ensure a more positive future for yourself and your children.
At The Schoenberg Family Law Group, P.C., we will assist and guide you through each stage of your divorce proceedings. Our Redwood City family law attorneys are compassionate and provide the skill and strength you need to proceed confidently through your divorce.
We will fiercely advocate for a fair, equitable outcome tailored to meet your interests. Let our dedicated legal team serve you and prove the difference that experience and professionalism make in your divorce.
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Debra Schoenberg was named a Fellow of the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers (AAML)
Designated as a Certified Family Law Specialist by the State of California Board of Legal Specialization
Board-Certified Family Law Trial Specialist by The National Board of Trial Advocacy (NBTA)
One of California’s Top Family Lawyers for five consecutive years: 2022–2026
SFLG Voted #1 Family Law Firm in California for six consecutive years: 2021 - 2026
One of the Best Places to Work in the Bay Area by San Francisco Business Times
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